Judgemental

Are you that person that without knowing anything, you judge everything and make your opinion?

So let me tell you a story, this story seems so minor, but an insightful thing that to realize today.

You know what is Jumbo Pen, its look like this.

this pen is not at all popular in India but everybody knows it, because of its size and no one use it, its actually very embarrassing to use this pen.

There is guy called Atharv was sitting in class with his friend, when he saw a girl holding the same pen in her hand, he caught sight because of pen size. 

He said to his friend, "Hay Ramesh. Just look at her pen. Is she kid? Who buys such long pen and bring in classroom like 2nd-grade kid."

Ramesh starts laughing so did I.

Ramesh said. "this is so weird man, so much dumb people in this world. what is the importance of buying this weird pen.?"

And they unnecessarily starting cracking jokes on the pen and obviously on the girl who bought it.

After a few days, Atharv was waiting on traffic signal then he saw an elderly lady with torn clothes under scorching heat, approaching different people requesting them to buy this jumbo size pen. She was knocking at windows of car so she can get attention and then she can sell all those pens. It made him ponder over lot of things. When she came to Athrav, Athrav without thinking much he bought the pen. After then it realized that it was the same pen that he saw in his classroom in that girl's hand. I laughed at her even was so judgemental plus pseudo-sophisticated that, I said, "Is this girl idiot or what?" Then I realized, she was no idiot, he is, for cracking jokes on her.

It's not only about this incident, It is applicable everywhere. We people are excellent at judging others, so quickly, We never even try to understand or observe things from their size. Never.

Without knowing anything, how can we judge everything and make our opinions?